FAQ

Can I bring my kids?: We love your little ones, but we are planning an adults-only celebration. We appreciate you making arrangements so you can enjoy the evening with us.
Can I bring a plus one?: If your invitation includes a guest, their name will be listed.
What’s the dress code?: Formal attire. Women: floor-length gowns. Men: dark suits with a tie (ties required).
Will transportation be provided?: No group transportation will be arranged. Valet parking is available at El Encanto, and we recommend ride share options like Uber or Lyft so you can relax and celebrate safely.
What is an “unplugged” ceremony?: We kindly ask that guests refrain from taking photos during our ceremony. We have a photographer and videographer capturing the moment — and we’d love to see your smiling faces, not your phones, in the photos.
Where should I stay?: Our hotel block is available at El Encanto Hotel in Santa Barbara. We’ve also listed a few nearby hotel suggestions on our Travel & Accommodation page.
When should I RSVP by?: Be on the lookout for a formal invitation coming soon with a mail-in RSVP.